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  • How I'm Making My 24 Pound Turkey


    I bought a gallon of wine!

    Last year I made a brine for my turkey that was phenomenal,
    even my mom ,who hates dry turkey breast loved this and agreed
    it was the most moist turkey she ever had.
    I am making it again
    only
    this year the turkey is 24 lbs!
    We got if from the neighboring farm.

    I need a big pot to marinate this one!
    It looks bigger when it is next to the gallon of wine!

    The recipe is for Turkey Breast but I did this with the whole turkey
    and
    I did not glaze the turkey with the cranberry sauce,
    I served it on the side

    Cranberry Glazed Breast of Turkey
    Recipe courtesy Emeril Lagasse, 2004 Inactive
    Prep Time:12 hr 15 min
    Cook Time:2 hr 0 min
    Serves:8 to 10 servings

    Ingredients

    The Brine
    3/4 gallon water
    2 cups white wine
    1 1/2 cups orange juice
    1 cup kosher salt
    1 cup light brown sugar
    1/3 cup chopped ginger
    1 tablespoon black peppercorns
    4 bay leaves
    4 sprigs fresh thyme

    Turkey:
    1 (6-pound) whole turkey breast
    1 tablespoon vegetable oil
    1 tablespoon Essence, recipe follows

    Emeril's ESSENCE Creole Seasoning
    (also referred to as Bayou Blast)

    2 1/2 tablespoons paprika
    2 tablespoons salt
    2 tablespoons garlic powder
    1 tablespoon black pepper
    1 tablespoon onion powder
    1 tablespoon cayenne pepper
    1 tablespoon dried oregano
    1 tablespoon dried thyme
    Combine all ingredients thoroughly.


    Yield: 2/3 cup

    Glaze:
    1 (12-ounce) bag fresh cranberries
    1/3 cup chopped ginger
    2 teaspoons orange zest
    1 cup sugar
    1/4 cup orange juice
    1 1/4 cups water
    1/4 cup orange-flavored liqueur


    Directions
    Combine all of the bringing liquid ingredients in a large non-reactive container
    (a stockpot works well for this) and stir to dissolve the salt and sugar.
    Rinse the turkey well under cold running water. Place the turkey in the brine, cover,
    and refrigerate, turning occasionally, for at least 12 hours and up to 24 hours.

    While the bird is bringing, make the cranberry glaze
    by combining the cranberries, ginger, orange zest, sugar, orange juice, and water
    in a medium saucepan. Bring to a boil over high heat, stirring occasionally,
    and reduce to a simmer. Cook for 5 to 10 minutes, or until cranberries  burst
    and sauce is very thick, strain through a fine mesh sieve into a mixing bowl to cool.
    When cooled, add the liqueur and stir to combine.
    Cover and refrigerate until you are ready to glaze the bird.
    (Make sure to return the glaze to room temperature before serving.
    If the glaze gets too thick, thin it with a bit of water.)
    Preheat the oven to 375 degrees F.
    Remove the turkey from the brine and discard the brine.
    Place the turkey, breast side up, in an aluminum foil lined roasting pan.
    Pat dry with paper towels. Rub the turkey with the vegetable oil
    and sprinkle on all sides with Essence.
    Roast the turkey until it is golden brown and almost done,
    about 1 hour and 20 to 30 minutes.
    Remove the turkey from the oven
    and brush all over with about 1/3 cup of the cranberry glaze.
    Return the turkey to the oven and continue cooking
    until an instant-read thermometer inserted in the thickest part of the breast
    registers 160 to 165 degrees F, about 10 minutes longer.
    (If the turkey begins to get too dark before it is cooked through,
    cover loosely with aluminum foil until it reaches the desired temperature.
    Transfer to a platter and let rest at least 15 minutes before carving.
    Carve into thin slices. Serve with the remaining glaze passed at the table.
    Source HERE

    UPDATE: The turkey is stuffed and in the roaster!

    Happy Thanksgiving!

  • Cider is Naughty!

    He got this when it fell on the floor
    and  enjoyed cleaning it out

    He looks guilty,doesn't he?

  • Remembering

    I took my mom and two of her sisters to their cousin Grace's funeral.
    She was their age so they knew her well.
    They had mementos displayed of Grace's life's work,
    letters that she wrote, embroidery, a quilt, photos etc.
    This is my mom and her sisters looking at the things...
    remembering their cousin Grace.

  • I made Barbie Look Fat

    I am helping my Mom make Christmas presents for her Great Grand Daughters.
     She is making them all Barbie clothes.
    One Christmas when I was about six
    she gave my little sister and I an old cracker tin

    full of clothes that she made.
    We loved those clothes and played with them for years.
    She is using the same patterns now, it is fun to make clothing for the kids
    and remember the ones I had (ours were lost in a fire)
    Last night I made Barbie nice evening wear but I am afraid the dress makes her look fat.
    I made a cloak to match.

    Here are other barbie clothes I've made

    Homemade Barbie Clothing


  • Vintage Blouses

    How many times have you heard someone say
    "They just don't make 'em like they used to" ?
    A friend of mine cleaned out her mother's home
    and brought me a load of fabric, lace, and thread that was her mothers.
    I was going through the boxes with my mom
    and we found some old blouses she had saved, probably to make doll clothing.
    I looked at the fine details on the blouses, they were so lovely.

    One was an old peasant blouse without the top drawstring

    And one was a fitted cotton blouse with shell buttons and embroidered flowers.

     

     
    Beautiful details, I love to look at vintage clothing.
    Most of the clothing made in this day and age would not wash and wear that well,
    unless it is made of better fabric.
    Most trendy fashions are made with cheap fabric
    because trendy clothes are not meant to be worn for long,
    classic fashions from better stores use finer fabric that washes well and is made to last.
    My mom was always really fussy about what fabric clothes were made of,
    that is one reason that even tough she had five kids and not much money
    we always looked especially nice
    even though we never had new clothing or the latest fashions.
    She bought us classic, well made clothing from second hand stores and
    we were better dressed than most of the kids at school
    who bought new clothing at the discount stores.

    One thing I have noticed is that our clothing lasts a lot longer
    since we do not have a clothes dryer. The fibers in the fabric
    are not being broken down as fast and becoming "lint" .
    My husband is hard on jeans in the greenhouse but he has some jeans now
    that are still good that he's been wearing for over 17 yrs.
    Every once in a while I patch a knee or mend a seam.

    Some interesting sites about lint:
    Closeup pics of Dryer Lint HERE
    Ways to recycle dryer lint HERE
      How to Make Felt From Dryer Lint

  • Dressed in a Dirndl

    The twins are having Thanksgiving dinner at school and invited me,
    I wanted  to dress up but all I could dig out was my dirndl
    that I had made at Ernst Licht Embroidery and Imports
     
    when we had an "Old World Germany" theme for a Poinsettia Show 11 yrs ago.
    So I got it down from the attic and put it on.
    It isn't puritanical, what,with that wide neckline and all
    but the kids will not know that...I hope!
     
    I even had green Birkenstocks to match!

    Hey, they are German right?

    On a sidenote:
    I just love these odd phone pix, don't know what it is about them.

  • Sundresses on Sweethearts

    I finished the sundresses I was making for my little nieces,
    they are going on a trip to Trinidad to visit family.


     
      I made them each a little different.



     

    It's fun to give a girl a new dress, as soon as the dress is on,
    they dance and twirl to model it.

     I loved the way this pic turned out ,the phone gets some really odd shots.

     

  • Big Surprises on Screen

    **SPOILER ALERT***

    These are just a few surprises that come to mind this morning,
    I was reminded of one big surprise when
    LOVELYiSH posted a pic from the movie Pretty in Pink

    1. Pretty in Pink
    The main character Andie( played by Molly Ringwald)
    is a poor girl in need of a prom dress.
    She sews a lot of her own clothing and makes her own prom dress by taking apart
    and reusing fabric from a second hand dress her dad got her
    and a pretty vintage prom dress that a friend (Annie Potts) gave her.

    All throughout the movie Andie had a cute, quirky fashion style
    so I was expecting something a little different but beautiful.
    I remember sitting in the theater waiting for her to come out in this dress
    she'd designed, thinking it was going to be breathtaking.
    Well, it was breathtaking but in a gasping sort of way.

    The whole audience made one collective gasping sound.
    It was on the hideous side of ugly. So not what I was expecting.
    A big surprise but it worked in the movie.

    I found a Fashion Blog with a post about
    "The WTF Prom Dress of Pretty in Pink"

    2.The Crying Game
    The ending was hyped as a surprise by the studio
    and everyone who saw it was asked not to divulge it and no one did,
    it was all hush, hush.
      The big surprise was that "she" (Dil) was a man.

     I thought she had masculine hands all along and I told my friend,
    that looks like a guy's hands, she said  "No it doesn't!"
    Ha, I was right.

    3. Carrie
    Anyone see this back in the day?
    The hand pops out of the grave?
    Scared the crap out of me!

    4.Basic Instinct
    That ice pick at the end.

    nuff said

    5.Dolores Claiborne
     
    This was a Stephen king book ,I had not read it
    but went to the movie thinking it was going to be another "Carrie" ,
    this movie was a nice surprise, it was really good.
    The best acting, scenery and storyline.

    6. Some Like it Hot
    The two main characters (Tony Curtis and Jack Lemon) witness a mob hit,
    they flee the state in an all female band disguised as women.
    First off Tony Curtis makes for a surprisingly pretty woman
    (Jack Lemon was especially homely!)

    But the ending line, that was a big surprise.
    Jack Lemon's character Daphne has a rich suitor named Osgood
    that she just can't get rid of.
    At the end she is sure he will dump her when she reveals that she's really a man...
    She pulls off the wig and drops the bomb...
    but Osgood says flatly  "nobody's perfect"
    and then there's Lemon's nonplussed, sideways muttering at the fade out .
    It's funny because it's almost like, whatever happens, his character can't win,
    while Tony Curtis is stuck with Sugar(Marilyn Monroe) in the back of the boat,
    while Osgood is beaming, utterly unphased.

    AMC has an extensive list of
    Greatest Film Plot Twists Film Spoilers and Surprise Endings

    Do you have a favorite surprise moment from a movie?

  • Sunday Shoutout : MyxlDove

    As long as I have been on Xanga I have seen @MyxlDove
    and I have enjoyed his presence here on Xanga.
    He had a beautiful wife and family and his love for them shows in all he does.

    1. Can you give a brief outline of your life, family?

    I'm a very fortunate man. Although I'm the youngest of 4 children, I have two older brothers and an older adopted sister that I love dearly. I credit my family's closeness to my amazing parents who have been married for 47 years and continue to be an excellent example of a what a good Christian marriage is supposed to look like. I absolutely adore my wife and kids.


    My wife recently started up her Xanga blog again. You can see her site HERE.

    2. What are your main interests, hobbies or collections?
    My passion is music. I've been writing, singing and playing the piano since I was 6 years old.
      
    Occasionally, I post some of my original songs on Xanga  HERE.
    If I had to choose a second interest, it would definitely be writing.
    I love, love, LOVE to write! It's why I'm on Xanga!


    3. Do you have a favorite memory from childhood?
    Some of my favorite childhood memories involve piling into our huge station wagon and taking road trips from Los Angeles to Chicago every couple years for our family reunion. This was before seatbelts were mandatory! My parents would secure everything to the top of the car and us kids would have the entire rear of the stationwagon to sleep, play, read books or star up at the stars. It was at least a 2-3 day trip and we'd often stop along the highway for potty breaks and I'd get to run in fields full of grasshoppers during the day and fireflies at night.

    4. What brought you to Xanga?
    I was one of the original pioneers. I've been on Xanga for over a decade and came by way of the fictional Bianca Broussard. She/It sent me an email on my old hotmail account, inviting me to Xanga. I fell in love with the community and I've been here ever since.

    5. What is your passion, pet peeve?
    Again, my passion is music. I've been making music forever and I've even had opportunities
    to get a record deal and such.

    But I was never willing to give up spending time with my kids for building a career.

    My pet peeve?
    People who don't have kids and get upset when small kids are loud. Not bratty, just noisy. Hello! They're 2 years old!  :-/

    6. What are your plans for the future ?
    Hopefully, I'll win the lottery and retire at an early age. Aside from that,
    I just want to be the best husband and father so that my children grow up
     to be the best spouse and parent they can be.

    7. What challenges have you faced recently?
    Well, the economy has made things difficult for us financially when my wife was laid off.
    It meant readjusting and adapting life to live within our reduced means.
    We're managing, but when it's your responsibility to feed 7 people, it can be a challenge.

    8. What is something you have learned about yourself these last few months?
    I've learned that the days of my youth when I could eat anything and still stay slim have passed.
    I'm not fat or anything, but I'm certainly mushy in places I didn't used to be. I have to consciously work to stay healthy. Those years can catch up to you quickly.


    9. What is something/someplace you have always wanted to do/see?
    I've always wanted to see the Grand Canyon and also visit Canada.
    That's where my wife's family (on her mother's side) is from.
    I hope to do that someday soon.

  • What's My Purpose in Life?

    I have heard women say that when they gave birth
    they knew that their purpose in life was for that very moment,
    to bring that person into this world.

    I often think "What is my purpose?"
    I never gave birth.
    I do not have a career.

    Yesterday...

    I walked

    I blogged

    I made three little sundresses for three little nieces
    who are going to Trinidad to see family.


     I Cleaned out the fridge.

    I visited my mom for a bit.

    My niece and her best school friend slept overnight,
    we made pizza for supper


    We made cards

    We made popcorn in the kettle and had apples and caramel dip

    They played wii and then went to sleep

    I finished sewing

    Then I watched an old movie "The Hitch Hike Lady" from 1935.
    By the way in the movie

    a mob wants to tar and feather two shysters,
    the one shyster says to the other "What, again?"
    That scene made me laugh


    This morning...

    We went out for bagels

    We went to Five Below, I gave them each $5 to spend.
     
    We saw Bumble Bee so I took their pic with him.


    I took the girls home

    I took my nephews along for the ride
    because I was passing a little country store that has the best Beef Jerky and they love it,
    we stopped and got some for them to eat along the way.

    I stopped to pick up something for the greenhouse

    When I got home I visited my mom for  bit

    I cleaned out the van

    I am going to make some food for a friend who's mother is dying of cancer.

    I am working on three more sundresses for the girls, a floral pattern.

    Khai (@Opticalnoise) recently vlogged and was asked
    "If she could switch place with anyone for a day who would it be?"
    she said me, bet she would pick a more exciting day.
    Not much excitement going on here.

    What is my purpose in life?
    I have thought about this for a few days now.
    Sometimes I have felt like I've had no purpose , no one to live on after me,
    no kids to want my things after I'm gone.
    I am not bitter that I do not have kids,I have had a baby on my hip since I was 14,
    nieces and nephews and kids from church,I have loved a lot of babies.

     I think my purpose is to enhance the lives of others.
    That seems to be what I do best.

    Just something I have been thinking about lately.

  • Famous Veteran's Day Quotes


     "Freedom is never free."
    -Author Unknown

    "How important it is for us to recognize and celebrate our heroes and she-roes!"
    -Maya Angelou

    "When our perils are past, shall our gratitude sleep?"
    -George Canning

    "Courage is almost a contradiction in terms.
    It means a strong desire to live taking the form of readiness to die."
    -G.K. Chesterton

    "This nation will remain the land of the free only
    so long as it is the home of the brave."
    -Elmer Davis

    "But the freedom that they fought for, and the country grand they wrought for,
    Is their monument to-day, and for aye."
    -Thomas Dunn English

    "I think there is one higher office than president and I would call that patriot."
    -Gary Hart

    "Lord, bid war's trumpet cease; Fold the whole earth in peace."
    -Oliver Wendell Holmes

    "As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them."
    -John Fitzgerald Kennedy

    "The most persistent sound which reverberates through men's history
    is the beating of war drums."
    -Arthur Koestler

    "I dream of giving birth to a child who will ask, 'Mother, what was war?'"
    -Eve Merriam

    "Valor is stability, not of legs and arms, but of courage and the soul."
    -Michel de Montaigne

    "In war, there are no unwounded soldiers."
    -Jose Narosky

    "We often take for granted the very things that most deserve our gratitude."
    -Cynthia Ozick

    "The more we sweat in peace the less we bleed in war."
    -Vijaya Lakshmi Pandit

    Thank you to all who have served our country!
    this was posted on 11/11/11 at 11:11

  • Any Ideas How to Help a Kid Learn?

    He is my nephew, one of the twins, born premature with a hole in his heart.
    When he was 1 1/2 years old  they operated on him to try to repair the hole.
    He had a stroke on the operating table.
    He went into a coma and was unresponsive for a few weeks but rallied again.
    He did not respond too much until they put his sister in the crib to visit him,
    he turned to her, he missed her.
    They said take him home, she will help him more than we can.
    He had to learn everything all over, how to crawl and walk
    and all his words came slowly, his sister pushed him along,
    she is bossy and it served a good purpose.
    He caught up little by little.
    He is smart as a whip mechanically, I had a broken tape player/radio.
    He was the one who broke it I think because he knew just what happened to it
    and asked to fix it, I though he may as well have at it.
    He took it apart and did indeed fix it.
    Now he is 11, he has a learning disability it seems, he can write beautifully
    and he reads well for the most part but he can not retain numbers,
    he forgets all the sums that he's worked on,
    it is always like starting over every time we work on math problems.
    even simple adding.
    He has the 2,5 and 10 table down in multiplication but the rest he just can not get.
    I go to his school on Thurs to help him do his school work ,
    I was there today and I was ready to pull his hair out
    (not mine, he has more than me)
    I had peppermints in my pocket and I gave him one when he did well,
    that did perk him up some, I think I will continue to do that.
    Any ideas on how to help him remember his numbers?

  • A Happy Verse

    @psycocrazypony asked me for a verse that makes me happy,
    I sent her
    Psalm 92:4
    which never ceases to fill me with joy.
    "O LORD; I sing for joy at the works of your hands. "

    Even when I'm down, I can go out an look and see the works of creation
    and it makes me glad.

    I think of this verse when I am standing in awe of nature.

     At the Grand Canyon 
     

       On a foggy morning

    When I see light from Heaven

    and last week during the fall snowstorm

     

  • Xanga is My Home

    Can you believe it is time to start making bows already?

    I have movies lined up, lots of ribbon, wires, scissors and drinking water.
    I'm all set to make a bazillion bows.

    Sooner or later you'd think everyone in the area and their mom would have a bow
    the way I make so many every year.

    The Poinsettia Show is coming right up too

    Ten thousand poinsettias, live music, and tasty vittles are all part of the adventure,
    so saddle up to join us as we celebrate Christmas in the wild, wild West!

    Friday 12/2 (9-9)
    Saturday 12/3 (9-5)
    Closed Sunday
    Monday 12/5 (9-9)

    I will be busy!

    So I come to this place that I'm at during our busy season where
    I apologize for not being on here like I want to be.

    This year is the first year on Xanga that I think I have things in a proper perspective.
    I used to feel so guilty about not reading and commenting
    that I let it take away from my work time.
    Part guilt part addiction.

    When I first started Xanga I only commented people I knew,
    then I saw that you can comment on any site so I did ,
    all over from one end to the other, I still love poking around on here.
    I became very addicted to commenting and made about 100 comments a day.
    It caused a lot of problems with my home life,
    I was staying up til 4 and was on here all the time many hours at a time.
    Things changed and so did I,
    I let things go at home that I should have been doing
    and people were hurt.
    I eventually went to counseling but it has been a slow process to learn a balance.
    I had to break the compulsive cycle of
    reading every sub and commenting on every site,
    after a while I got it down to making about 50 comments a day.
    People on here were hurt when I stopped commenting so much
    and started doing the things I needed to do offline.
    I was trying to please everyone and work on past issues, it was all too much.
    I felt like I let everyone down on and offline but I thank God
     that I was able to continue to sort through it all.

    I'm finally at  place where I feel like I have a good balance,
     I can blog most days and make 25 comments or so a day but
    if I miss a day or two I do not feel guilty.
    I stayed off of Xanga almost a week a while ago
    that was the first time since I have had this site that I did that.

    I figured something out,
    I have always been a giver, I do for others,
    it is who I am, I have a hard time receiving.
    This is one of the only places in my life where I get more than I am able to give.
    There is no way I can return all the comments or read all the subs,
    even if I would not post for a month and just comment I could not keep up.
    I considered shutting down my site because I felt bad
    that I could not keep up.
    I love this community and I love the people here
    and miss you when I'm not here .
    You are and have been a part of my life since 2006.
    We've been through a lot together, I have prayed for many of you
    and I've been prayed for by you in my hour of need.
    We've encouraged one another and made  each other laugh and cry.
      We have been a hiding place from the rest of life,
     a place where you KNOW you can find someone to talk to
    and get some love when you need it.
    We do know one another and care, we share our lives on here.
    This is where I've met some of the best friends that I have ever known.
    This is as much my community as the little village where I live is.
    This is why my site is still here even when I am not able to be as much as I would like.
    This is where I fit in, where I belong,
    where you will find me as long as there is a Xanga.

  • A SUITABLE Term for Female Private Parts?

    I think "Pussy" is so vulgar when referring to a vagina.
    Actually I think all the slang terms I have heard used for vagina are vulgar
    and I hate "vay jay jay"
     Is there a good term to use besides vagina?
    Nothing silly or goofy or cutesy, just a decent term.
    For kids I have heard any number of words...
    "flower" or "peach".
    My mom called it a "Tinkler" and I guess that suited for all my growing up years.

    I never minded calling a penis a "Willie", "Wee-wee" or "Pee-pee" for little boys.
    Somehow a "Pee-pee" for girls just doesn't sound right.
    For men I do not mind hearing "cock" for slang
    as much as some of the other terms.
    ( I do not use the term
    but I have found it to be the lesser of all the evils so to speak)
     "Man Bits" makes me laugh
    so why is it I can't find a slang term suitable for vagina?

    What did your call your private parts as kids?

    (I have no pictures for this post, ha)

  • A Few New Favorites!

    Entertainment

    The Family that Preys


    I got this movie at the library this week,
    it features two of my favorite actresses Alfre Woodard and Kathy Bates.
    They go on a road trip and I loved those scenes, reminded me of Vi and I.


    The Mentalist

    I like this show a lot.

      Prime Suspect
    I  really like this show, I enjoy the main characters



    On Xanga

    @Mamabeans is hosting a Xanga Christmas Card Swap
    This will be fun!

    http://x7d.xanga.com/c1ff523644630260064844/b207131149.jpg

    @Roadkill_Spatula's
    post You should be like me

    Foods
    A few things I have tried recently that I really like

    Barbara's Bakery Shredded Oats Vanilla Almond
    This is the best munchy snack and a great cereal

    These are so good,we had some with orange marmalade,was delightful!


    Brummel
    & Brown Simply Strawberry® Creamy Fruit Spread

    I bought this for the first time last week and it is really good on toast.



    A New Recipe

    I made Chicken Piccata this week,

    THIS recipe was easy and delicious!



    Other Products


    EOS Lip Balm Sphere
    is still my Chapstick (sphere) of choice.
    Lemon Drop Flavor
     


    I bought a new Face Moisturizer that I like
    Nip + Fab Moisture Fix
     


    What new things have you found that you love?

  • Need a Smile ?

    There's no way to watch this video and not smile,
    it just makes you happy.

  • Authors on Xanga Series: Darkoozeripple


    Continuing my Authors on Xanga Series I am interviewing
    Graham Worthington his Xanga site is darkoozeripple

    Graham has published three books

    Wake of the Raven
    D.5.starfish.textAdjusted.mix.B.J.final.10April2011
    Wake of the Raven is a story of the world's corruption,
    of forbidden desire and its awful consequences.
    Read more HERE

    Zorn
    1.C.L66.100.60.R44.37.86.NewFonts.57.100.100.J
    This is a futuristic novel that follows a holiday romance
    in the bisexual society of 2035
    Read more about it HERE

    He has also published a collection of 30 Xangan writers last year in
    Xangans


    When did you get into writing?
    Was it something you studied for,

    or did you make a decision to do it later?
    Where do your ideas come from?

    Can you study for writing? I didn’t, I went in for engineering. I’m a practical type;
    I studied how to fix things. But I can’t name any writer who’s ever made a point of saying you must take courses first. You need to be a reader, and to love reading and stories,
    that’s the main thing. I did, and that’s where the writing came from.
    If you don’t love reading, forget about writing. But once you’ve started,
    you definitely need to study the craft. It’s a joy, but it’s also work,
    hard work, and you have to learn the ways to get around its difficulties and limitations.

    To write a novel was an interest that grew into an ambition, but it took a long time to grow from a little seed. It always hung in the back of my mind, all my life. I started as a kid. I was about eleven, and I wrote part of a science fiction story. It didn’t go very far, just a page or so. Later in life – a lot later – I got an idea for a novel, and I chewed on it for months. Finally I thought “look how the years have passed,” grabbed a blank page and started. I think a lot of my motivation came from frustration with work and the economy. We put so much time into these things, and finally we’re let down, and then we wonder why we grind away at this world and let our dreams slide. So I started writing down the words that were to flesh out my story…
    and after a few hours had three pages of clunky garbage. “Quit,”
    I thought, “you can’t do it. It’s just a silly, childish dream you’ve had all your life,”
    but then “no, keep at it. Why not, you may get better.” And slowly I did.
    By the time I was at about 30,000 words (about 90 pages)
    I felt that I knew what I was doing.
    I had to go back and re-write a lot of course, but I work that way normally,
    writing new material, and then re-writing the old, using the perception
    I’ve gained from writing the new.

    The main thing I’ve learned about writing is something very internal and essential:
    there’s a vast difference between having a glowing vision of a major, brilliant, entertaining story, and turning that vision into a unified, coherent flow of words that paint that vision into the mind of the reader. Inspiration is essential, but it’s just a glow, a flash of emotion in the mind, and writing is the difficult, often tedious process of giving it solid form.

    Has Xanga helped you as a writer? If it has, how?

    Xanga’s a mixed blessing. It brings together widely separated people who have a common interest in something. For many people the something is just the fun of communicating with others, but to me the something is writing. In all cases though, there has to be an interest in interacting using words or pictures. It would be difficult to play a hockey game by blogs and comments.
    So writing’s important on Xanga, and naturally writers tend to hang out here, but not as much as they used to. The place has gone down a bit; too many trolls, and too much drama over nothing. Even so, it still has a charm that the other systems have always lacked, and most of the writers that I know I first met on Xanga. So yes, it helped me. It’s important to get feedback from other writers, and a lot more convenient than going out in November weather to a writer’s group in a drafty library, like I did in Manchester a few years ago. Mind you, we got the readings and feedback bit over briskly and went to the pub afterwards, which we can’t do on Xanga, so I have to chalk a win up for the real life library there.
    On the other hand, if somebody wanted to read about twenty pages of his stream-of-consciousness junk, you couldn’t flee after the first ten with hands over ears, because we’d all agreed to a code of cooperation and tolerance. The freedom to leave – because you’re not really there – that Xanga gives would have been welcome. That’s an important principle to adopt if you ever set up a writer’s group by the way; the Manchester group realized they needed to practice tolerance when the group nearly disintegrated in its early days, so I got the benefit of what they’d learned the hard way. Perhaps that’s a useful lesson to apply to Xanga?
    I think so, but unfortunately I can’t solve the after-session beer-lack problem.

    Most of the writers using Xanga who’ve published in print
    tend to be rather quiet and hide away in dark Xanga corners.
    They don’t usually blog much or get involved in Xanga drama.
    Too busy brooding on plots, editing their latest manuscript,
    or reading nerdy books on style or grammar.
    Those latter two are very good for leaving you feeling drained and burnt out.

    What advice would you give to other writers or want-to-be writers?

    As we’re on Xanga right now, this is a great opportunity to say that Xangan writers should stick together and find ways to fight the system. That’s what’s frustrating all writers now, whether they’re good or bad; the publishing system. It’s indifferent to quality, and it’s averse to risking money on unknown writers. The self-publishing companies are useless at generating publicity. It’s up to groups of indie authors to collectively find their own ways.

    Regarding actually writing a novel, which is more interesting than discussing publishing companies… That’s a tricky question. I don’t have any vast, comprehensive knowledge that I can hand out as though I’m an authority, but just what I’ve learned by writing a couple of fiction novels. But I’ll have a shot.
    Bear in mind that this is just my opinion, and lots of things in writing are just opinion.


    -First rule: start.
    Certainly study, but as you go on, and as you need to. Study is not a substitute for starting. Starting is essential. Would you learn to drive a car if you’d no intention of ever owning one?

    -Do not on any account try to write a novel, factual book or whatever.
    Try to write a masterpiece on whatever you have to say,

    with the attitude that it’s an impossible task, but you’re going to succeed somehow.
    That way you may write something worth reading.
    Don’t add to the junk out there.

    -Don’t mess about forever with little pieces.
    You haven’t started till you attempted something big,
    and if you mess about with little pieces, you’ll never attempt anything big.

    -Listen attentively to everything everyone tells you,
    and silently ignore nearly all of it.

    With writing, there is nothing easier to obtain than dumb suggestions. Be ingenious;
    find ways of proving that your method works best. Look at how other writers do things.
    You learn a lot that way. If you can’t prove it, only then start to consider taking the advice. Writing is a solitary path, and the general rule is that you know best.

    -Never, ever stare at a blank page waiting for inspiration.
    If you don’t know what to write, write an essay on what you like to write about,
    but don’t know how. This will infallibly turn into part of what you wanted
    to write in the first place.
    This is part of what I call “associated writing.”

    -Know your subject.
    Of the two I’ve written so far, the first is historical fiction,
    and I spent about a sixth of my writing time researching times I already knew a lot about,
    and another sixth writing notes and little essays to make my understanding firm in my mind. That’s a full third spend on what I call “research and associated writing.”
    My second was speculative fiction, set in the future, but I still had to do the research by writing essays on a non-existent world that I needed to exist.

    -Rewrite and edit.
    Jack Kerouac never did, but reader's interest in his times saved him from obscurity.
    He’s famous for recording the era of the beatniks, the fifties, and cursed for only doing it half as well as he could. I spend about a third of my time rewriting. That’s two-thirds of my time accounted for, which means only one third is spent on the original writing.

    Now I guess I’ve more than come to the end of my time here.

    Thanks Seedsower, for this great opportunity to speak on your site
    as one of Xanga’s many authors. It’s been great fun arranging my thoughts into –
    I hope – some kind of useful form.

    Thank you, Graham for this interview.
    read more about Graham on his  Amazon Page.

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    Previous Author Interviews

  • I Love to Watch a Campfire

     
    I took this pic with my phone while watching the fire spark
    and  listening to the crackling wood.
    The play of the flames is so mesmerizing ,
    all those reds and yellows dancing together making orange.
    Often when staring at the flames you can get so lost
    in thought that you forget where you are.
    Maybe you go back to a summer long ago
    when you were camping and roasted marshmallows
    or
    you are thinking of a romantic time spent with someone in front of a fire place
    or
    maybe you see colors dancing like ballerinas.
    A loud snap of the fire reminds you where you are
    and for a moment you are surprised where that is
    because
    you were far, far away in thought.

  • Aunt Helen Forgot Her Purse

    The Chick Weekend began on Fri  with lunch
     

    I made Ham,white bean and kale soup

    We put our names on our cups
    Aunt Helen wrote hers really BIG so she could see it.
    (You may remember Aunt Helen from THIS post, which still makes me laugh.)

    We played games and made cards and laughed a lot!

    In the morning we woke up to  makings of a Nor'easter
    and they all beat feet back home in a hurry,
    like older people do when a storm's on the way.
     Aunt Helen was in such a hurry that she forgot her purse.

    I am returning Aunt Helen's purse to her today.

  • Nor'easter Photos

    It is rare to see snow at the peak of Autumn
    but yesterday we had a Nor'easter pass through.
    The snow with the gorgeous colors was a beautiful contrast.

     

     

  • Nor'easter Tree

    I was looking at this tree trying to figure out why it bowed ,
    I've never seen it like this before.
    I think it's because all the green leaves are still on the tree,
    it has not turned color yet.
    Usually by the time we get snow the leaves have fallen off and it is winter bare.

  • The Annual Chick Trip

    It's here on the farm this weekend.
     
    Usually I take them away but the downstairs apartment
    of our farmhouse is empty
    so I decided to have it here this year.
    I have Ham, White Bean and Kale Soup made,
    Spinach Salad with Gala Apples, Dried Cranberries, Walnuts, Goat Cheese
    and Balsamic Vinaigrette ( that's the fancy spelling) ready.
    I made Tiramisu.
    Extra beds are put up, bathrooms needs to be cleaned yet.

    Here are the 6 sisters from a few years ago

    Here are links to some past chick trips

    2007
    Here we have a captive audience watching a movie
    One Captive Audience

    2006
    Everyone in the kitchen all at once
    chick trip 011v

    Having all the sister ,in laws and a few cousins here
    talking and laughing....
    life is good!

  • 7 Things, Some you knew, Some you didn't

    I've been tagged a few times for this one...

    1.When I was 8 I was hit by a car
    while crossing a busy highway on a dare from my brother.
     I had just bought a box of Slim Jim's to share with my family
    and they ate them all while I was in the Ambulance.
    I was so disappointed!
    I was fine not even a broken bone and they sent me right home.
    My hip has an indent in it on the left side from where I was hit.

    2. Raw onions are about the only thing I CAN NOT eat.
    Raw Onions and strong fish, I abhor sardines!
    I eat almost everything but there are things I do not enjoy such as;
    chocolate , liver, watermelon and Brussels Sprouts  but I can eat them.
    I do not like coffee and soda either.

    3. I can write well with both hands in any direction and at the same time.

    I can write my name with my foot.
    I can make a circle with one hand and a square with the other at the same time.
    I can write upside down or backwards
    sauce 020
    or
    upside down and backwards at once.
    This example is just with the right hand.

    4. I know a bazillion songs about all kinds of things
    and sing them anytime and anywhere
    and I sing in the car...
    really loudly!
    I talk to myself too.

    5. I wear Birkenstocks all year long.
    unless it snowed, then I wear my Muck boots.

    6. I am very plain
    No make-up, no frills, no fussy haircuts
     but I do blame @Saintvi for my one indulgence
    she took me for my first Pedicure a few years ago and I have gotten them ever since.
    I love painted toenails!

    7.I sleep by an open window 
    until it gets bitter cold outside and I do not like to be under the covers,
    I use a throw blanket that I can kick off in a hurry,
    I get too hot 

    Oh....and...
    I have been in all 48 mainland states
     I love driving in the USA

    I would love for everyone to do this,
    I love learning more about each of you.

  • Green Tomatoes and a Mennonite Woman

    We have already made the Kraut
    now we're making the relish for the hotdogs we give out to over 7000 people
    at our Poinsettia Show.

    We needed some green tomatoes yesterday

    so we stopped at a farm

     

    in the beautiful Penn Valley of Pennsylvania, in the Kutztown area.

     

    They plant a late crop of tomatoes and had some for us,
    our tomatoes are over for the season.

    HERE is a post about Making Relish

  • It is Raining on my Fall Parade

    Autumn is just not playing nice this year...  
    I caught  glimpse of her colors between the rain drops
    on Sunday evening when I went for a hike.

    We saw a lady walking goats, that was a first.

      We made 112 quarts of applesauce on Sat and are making pickle relish today.
    Busy, busy, busy!

  • The Phone Camera has a Mind of its Own...

    It has been raining all week,
    I have no new and marvelous fall photos to share
    I did find a few "surprises " on the phone, pics I did not intentionally take.

     

    and whatever this is...

    Also, what do you want to know?
    Ask me anything and I will try to answer it.
    I might even do a video post.

  • Traditional Mennonite Music

    Yesterday we went to the Ridgeview Bookstore
    which is a Mennonite Fabric and Bookstore
    where a lot of  Amish and Mennonites shop.
    We have been going there for books and music for years.

     

     

       

     

    The store is situated in the middle of farmland in Lancaster County PA.


     
    We wanted to buy some traditional Mennonite music
    and they have a good selection of it.

    My mom and my husband grew up in traditional Mennonite homes.
    My dad was not Mennonite but we were raised with Mennonite traditions.
    We listened to all kinds of music but traditional A cappella  Mennonite music
    was my moms favorite and she played it often.
    My uncle had a recording studio
    (James K. Hodgkins Custom Recording - Reading, PA )
    where he recorded and produced recordings for people ,
    he kept my mom well supplied with Mennonite music that he recorded.

    Here is a sample of traditional four part
    Mennonite A cappella singing

    I love the harmony, I think it is truly beautiful.

  • So maybe I am boring...

    I know I post a lot of photos and avoid drama,
    I will not argue or fight.
    I try not  to comment on negative posts or gossip
    and I keep a lot of my strong opinions to myself.
    ...boring.

    I prefer to encourage rather than discourage
    and I do not often complain.

    I will be the first to tell you my blog is on the boring side...
    making sauerkraut is not thrilling.

    I never thought my life was so interesting, it is a way of life come and gone
    but here the traditions of doing certain things was continued, it just never stopped.
    Like growing produce for the year,
    having a root cellar full of potatoes,onions,cabbage and carrots,
    canning and freezing,
    shelves lined with jars and freezers full, I never buy corn or peas.
    Cooking everyday and baking from scratch,
    shopping at thrift stores for most of our clothing,
    making cider and rendering lard after butchering.
    Having a springhouse which is still our water source,
    using the pans and pails the were used on the farm since it was a farm,
    keeping the wringer washer which is still in the basement and I have used it,
    I use a washboard to get dirt out of the jeans when they are really dirty
    I do not even have a clothes dryer and because of that the clothing lasts a lot longer,
    Sewing and mending, I put patches on work clothing and replace zippers,
    I eventually cut  up old clothing for rags and keep buttons and zippers for reuse.
    Doing things with the kids, not relying on TV  to entertain them,
    Having our  greenhouse business on our property
    and being closed on Sundays as it is our day of rest.

    When I started blogging everyday life
    I realized that this was so different from the mainstream,
    and even if I felt like it was boring ,not everyone else did.

    This blog is my social and creative outlet,
    it is a journal for the future generations to see ,
    it is my joy,
    my touchstone to a community that I love.
    It is what I do for me.